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Regardless of the type of neighborhood you live in, there are still some basic etiquette rules you should follow to be a good neighbor. The ultimate goal is to live in peace and harmony, and even though that’s not always possible, you can at least do whatever it takes to prevent hostilities and long-lasting hard feelings.


No one expects you to be quiet as a mouse, but you should also respect certain basic rules when it comes to making too much noise. A lot depends on where you live, what type of dwelling you occupy, and the habits of your neighbors. Noise acceptability on a street filled with young families is different from an apartment building occupied by single twenty-somethings.

Noise etiquette rules:

If you live in an apartment building, don’t holler to someone at the other end of the hall.
There is no reason to hammer a nail on a common wall that you share with the apartment next door past 8:00 at night. It can wait until the next day.
Mowing the lawn at 7:00 on a Saturday morning will not endear you to your neighbors. Wait until at least 10:00.
Don’t honk your horn every time you pull into your driveway. Your family will find out you are home soon enough.
Sitting outside on a warm summer night with your spouse or friend is wonderful, but if your house is on a small lot, and the neighbor’s bedroom window is close, it’s rude to hold a long conversation on the back porch past 10:00 PM. Take it inside so your neighbor can sleep.
Avoid all unnecessary noise from any source from 9:00 PM to 9:00 AM. This includes revving car engines, children riding scooters, voices, and whatever else may wake someone from a sound sleep.

Being a Good Neighbor

Follow the Golden Rule to be a good neighbor. These are people you are likely to see everyday, or at least fairly often. You don’t want to have to lower your head in shame after you know you’ve misbehaved.

Tips on being a good neighbor:

Observe and respect your neighbor’s personal space.
Try not to borrow anything, but if you must, return the item immediately after using it. If you break the item, pay to fix it or replace it.
Don’t be the neighborhood gossip. That’s just rude and will eventually come back to bite you.
If you have an issue with a neighbor, go directly to that person and discuss it in an adult manner. Don’t call the cops unless you are threatened.
Not everyone is a dog or cat lover, so show responsibility for your pets. That includes keeping them off the neighbor’s lawn and picking up after them.
Remember your neighbors during the holidays with a card or small homemade gift.
If you and a neighbor have a misunderstanding, make an extra effort to make things right by shaking hands and at least being on friendly terms. You don’t have to hang out. A simple wave as you pull into the driveway is sufficient.
If your neighborhood has a homeowners association, know the rules and follow them.
Curb Appeal

A good neighbor is one who maintains the exterior of the house and lawn at the same level as the rest of the neighborhood. You don’t want your house to be the one on the street that drags down the value of homes. If you can’t mow your own lawn, hire a neighbor’s child.

Basic exterior maintenance:

Mow the lawn. Don’t let it get knee-high before doing something about it.
Remove mold from the exterior walls and paint when necessary.
Make sure that trees, shrubs, and other elements don’t creep into your neighbor’s yard. This includes tree limbs, spreading shrubs, and weeds.
Remove all bicycles, skateboards, and toys from the front yard at the end of the day.
If your neighborhood has a homeowners’ association, follow the rules and guidelines.
Social Events

You might be a party animal, and that’s just fine as long as you don’t intrude or impose on your neighbors. An occasional late-night blast might be forgiven, but all-night parties every single weekend can make you the bad guy. Be respectful of your neighbors when you throw a party.

Good neighbor social guidelines:

Ask your guests to park in the driveway or in front of your house. Make sure they don’t block someone else’s driveway or use their designated spot in an apartment complex lot.
Obey noise ordinance laws. If a neighbor calls or comes over and asks you to pipe down, be friendly and apologize. Then quiet down.
If you are having a big party, you might as well invite the neighbors. This does several things. It shows that you are a friendly person, it allows you to get to know your neighbors better, and you are much less likely to have complaints.
Welcome New Neighbors

One of the things that made me feel warm and welcome when my family moved to a new home more than twenty years ago was when the neighbors showed up on our doorstep with platters of sandwiches and cookies. Another neighbor brought a thermos of hot coffee.

The next time someone moved to our street, I was honored to be one of the people delivering food. This type of thing enriches everyone’s lives, so I think it should be done more often.

Ideas to welcome new neighbors:

Introduce yourself as soon as you can. Give the new neighbors your phone number.
Deliver meals and treats.
Hand deliver a bouquet of fresh-cut flowers from your garden.
Offer to have the new neighbors’ children over while the moving van is unloading the furniture.
Give the new family a list of services and phone numbers in the area. Include emergency services, doctors’ offices, dentists, schools, places that offer carryout, dry cleaners, and whatever else you can think of.
Have a block party once a year to get to know all the new neighbors.
When people make an effort to be a good neighbor by following proper etiquette, everyone will have a sense of well-being, knowing you are surrounded by friends. The neighborhood will be more appealing, and you’ll be more content in your home. An extra benefit is the security of knowing that you and your neighbors have each other’s backs.
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